Hello, Supreme I saw your post yesterday about normalizing women proposing and I must say the comments were hilarious. It seemed like you were the only person in the room advocating for women to take the lead if they want to get married. I must say I agree with you 100 percent here is what I am going through.

I and my daughter father have been together for 15 years. The relationship has gone through ups and downs over the years. We have both cheated on each other and have separated multiple times but somehow we always end up back together. For the past 2 years, the relationship has been going really well and I am the happiest I have even been through the 15 years. There is one huge problem, he doesn’t believe in "commitment through titles".

That's the way he refers to marriage “commitment through titles” and I hate it. When it comes to marriage he is a non-believer he says marriage is an "outdated caveman practice that was implemented to maintain property inheritance” because they didn’t have DNA test back in the day”. I don’t agree with this logic at all. It literally makes me sick when he talks like this because marriage has always been something I have looked forward to since I was a girl.

The thought of not being able to get married breaks my heart and I have broken down and told him that I eventually want to get married one day and is he isn’t with that we need to stop wasting each other's time.

Our daughter is 15 and she will be going away to college soon once she graduates high school. I truly don’t want to be with anyone else but I would like a conventional marriage. While respect his beliefs I know what I want. Is it worth it for a last-ditch effort to propose and see what happens?

You were one of the few men I saw advocated women to pop the question. Do you think he will reject me or feel disrespected? Also, I saw one woman say that a woman proposing to a man is emasculating do you agree with that?

Help me out I’m interested to see if other men feel the way you do or am I just wasting my time?

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