Hot Topic : Feeling Stuck In My Relationship Can You Help?

Another day another Hot Topic, here is what we are discussing today. Can you help this woman out with her relationship problem? Tap in today with the Hot 991 app and send us a message so we can help this lady out with her relationship problem.

Here is what she wrote:

I’ve been a relationship with my dude for 5 years. I really love him and think he is the perfect man for me. With that being said there is one Fucillo HUUUUUUUUGGEEE problem, he is extremely indecisive.
I don’t just mean decisions like what he wants to eat or wear. Nooooooooo he is indecisive about EVERYTHING, he can’t decide what career he wants to have. Where he wants live or even what type of car to drive. I’m not sure if this comes from fear or just not knowing what to do. At first I thought it was just a little procrastination, which we all suffer from to a certain, but no hoonnneey this is something different.
How can you expect to be the leader in a relationship, when you can’t make simple decisions about your life? I think the process of him being indecisive holds him back from being the man he could truly be. Once again I say this is out of love, how much longer should I stay around? This has really become an issue for me because we are planning on buying a house together but it honestly seems like I am buying a house by myself because of my man's indecisiveness.
I don’t like the way it makes me feel to be in a relationship with someone who is so lost about where they are going. I know where I’m going and what I want out of life and I know the next step for me. I just want to make sure that me and my partner are going in the right direction because it does not feel like we are.

This seems like a common problem in a lot of relationships. What was your partner doing before he met you? How was his life? A lot of times women consider men indecisive because they seem to assume because a man doesn’t communicate his plan means that he doesn’t have one. This is not true, sometimes a good decision no matter how small it may seem to you takes time to consider.

Maybe you should be a little more patient and have a little trust in your man. If he was that bad at making decisions, why did you choose him?

What do you think?